http://infidelityinamarriage.com/getting-over-an-affair-how-to-stop-the-images-of-the-paramour Learn How To Make Your Marriage Work After an Affair Thu, 26 Jul 2012 15:25:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://infidelityinamarriage.com/getting-over-an-affair-how-to-stop-the-images-of-the-paramour#comment-2707 Lucy Johnson Thu, 26 Jul 2012 15:25:42 +0000 http://infidelityinamarriage.com/?p=44#comment-2707 I am still having trouble dealing with the anger. It has been a year and a half since I found out. We take 3 steps forward and then 2 steps back. When things get going really good again ( I think we are closer now in some ways than ever in our marriage) he will do something that makes me supecious and I get all paranoid that he still longs for her. She is a bar tender and he still goes to the bar without me 3 – 4 days a week. He says that she means nothing to him, but why can’t he stay out of her place of business? This is making me crazy. Every time I start to trust him I find them talking or texting. He jsut lost a close friend and he had to text her to discuss it because they both took care of him the same way. I am his wife and I can not understand this.

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