If you want to build trust back again in your marriage - You need to do things a little differently
Building trust after infidelity in marriage is one of the hardest challenges that a couple face when they are trying to work on a relationship. Infidelity is generally coupled with a lot of lies and deceit which the cheater shamelessly uses to [...]
After the affair, when you are trying to put the pieces together and working on making things work again, it is quite common to start comparing yourself to the other women. You might start saying things like this to yourself
“She is definitely prettier than me”
“She is smart, intelligent, successful, and funny. No wonder he fell for her.”
Are you worried that your spouse might be having an extramarital affair? There are many signs of infidelity that may help you find out whether or not your spouse is cheating on you. However, there are two things that you absolutely must know before I talk about the signs of infidelity.
a. Your spouse may show all the signs of infidelity and s [...]
Hearing the news that your partner has cheated on you with someone else is like getting punched in the gut. The news is especially shocking if you thought that there was nothing wrong with your marriage and you both were happy. Everything just seems to go down the abyss from that point onwards. The thoughts just seem to take over control of y [...]
Anger might be having the opposite affect on the marriage than you think
Anger is one of the normal emotions after you find out that your spouse has cheated on you. But chronic anger can very well be the main hindrance in healing after the affair.
There can be many reasons for the anger to continue. In essence, the anger is continuing because [...]
The Images may be one of the biggest obstacle in getting over an affair
Getting over an affair that your spouse had isn’t an easy thing to do. Especially with all the images that keep playing in your head like a movie or like a slideshow. It is definitely not in your best interest to keep thinking about the images if you want to make your mar [...]
Should You Get a Divorce?
Some couples who have failed to make their relationship work after infidelity in marriage, start entertaining the idea of divorce after infidelity. The emotional sequence of getting a divorce is really devastating.
What will happen after the divorce?
What will happen to the children?
What will happen to my life?
Are you wondering if your marriage will ever be the same again?
The most common question people ask after having affairs in marriage is “Will my marriage ever be the same again?” The question does make sense. After all the emotional and mental torture and sometimes physical abuse, it’s only natural to yearn for the carefree and loving relatio [...]
When your partner is having an intimate connection with someone other than yourself and there are emotions involved in their connection with some intensity, then it is quite possible that they are having an emotional affair. It is a very difficult situation for many because it is difficult to confront or accuse your partner of doing anything [...]
An affair in a marriage is devastating. After all you two have been through. After all the good times and the hard times shared together. After all the memories. After growing up a kid together. How could they do this? Is it possible to continue the marriage after an affair? Has the marriage over? Should you end the marriage or forgive your s [...]